Asher is 3!

This past weekend we celebrated Asher turning 3 and had a family birthday party a few days delayed.  Bibi and I got back from our UAE & India New Year's Cruise and with enough sleep on the plane rides, were able to bounce right back into action.  With Asher's birthday being on New Year's, I think he will one day enjoy all the hype and celebration - parties all around the world just for him!

This year, things were more tame, however, and we had a super hero themed birthday party at home.  Everyone was encouraged to dress up and there were certainly some creative costumes.  The four of us had more well-known costumes while others came as Super Stretch (Stacey), Penguin (Leo), The Time Traveler (Bibi), Super Zee (guess who) and Dad (Brad) - thank you all for your effort.

A few weeks ago, Bibi asked Asher what he wanted his birthday cake to look like and he said he wanted an M&M/pickle/orange cake - so who am I to deny my son of the cake that he asks for?  I had just flown 14 hours on a plane the night before but you better believe that I whipped up that cake just for him!

At three, Asher is precocious, silly, smart and active.  He wants to do most of the things that Riley does but also shows the differences between them.  We love seeing the smiley, snuggly, quirky and brave side of Asher and can't wait to see what else this year brings out in him!

Bunk Bed Brothers

This afternoon as Chris and I were watching the Buckeye game, the boys were upstairs playing in Riley's room.  It was the longest time they played together without yelling, fighting or crying and it was really fun to hear them laughing and and playing along with each other.

When it was getting close to nap time, Riley came down and told us that he had tucked Asher into the top bunk and he was going to nap up there - so who were we to refuse this request?  Asher was so cute snuggled up on the top bunk in such a big kid bed!

And for bedtime tonight, Chris asked if they wanted to have a slumber party and sleep in the bunk beds together.  This, of course, was met with resounding approval!  So tonight, the boys are having a brothers sleepover party.  I hear them talking and laughing and so far I have only been called in twice, so we will see how this goes.  Keeping my fingers crossed that Asher will fall asleep quickly and Riley will stop talking to him when he stops getting answers!

Halloween 2018

This year, the weather has been beautiful all around Halloween but of course the day finally rolls around and rain threatens all day.  We kept our eye on the clouds, planned our outfits accordingly and made the best of the day.

Riley had a costume parade at Hoover where all the kids wore their costumes and took a stroll around the blacktop.  I wasn't planning on going cause it was in the middle of the work day, but Riley asked really nicely and told me I was going to be the only mom that wasn't going to be there.  With the guilt laid on that thick, I popped over to Hoover to watch the parade, only to have Riley see me, ignore me and pretend that I wasn't even there!  He was happy to have me there, I know, but it was funny to see him try to be too cool!

With Chris in Israel this year, we put snacks on our porch and headed over to Bibi and Zee's house to maximize our trick-or-treating experience.  We know where the lights are all on and the big candy bars are handed out!  After shoveling down some green monster mac and cheese, we donned our outfits and headed out.  It drizzled a little here and there but nothing that we couldn't handle.  At the first house, they were giving out foot long pixie sticks.  Asher asked what it was, I told him sugar, and for the next 10 houses, he asked if they were giving out sugar.  He made his candy selections very methodically and I had to speed him along a little here and there or we would have only made it 5 houses in an hour and a half.

We got back in enough time to help Bibi hand out the last of her candy and go through our stash to pick out the one piece that they could have that night - another challenging concept.  Last year, the Halloween candy made it almost through to the next year, but we will see how long it lasts in the candy bowl this year!

Kindergarten, here we come!

Believe it or not, today was Riley's first day of kindergarten! We have been counting down the months, weeks and days and the time has finally come - I Riley was really excited for the start of something new!  He will be doing morning Kindergarten Enrichment at the JCC in the morning, then he gets to take the van to school and will have afternoon Kindergarten at Hoover Elementary.  

I met Riley at school this afternoon for the first day exchange and with his new backpack, his sporty outfit and a big toothless smile on his face, he said that he was ready to go - no hesitation, no tears, no anxiety - just a kid who was ready to make new friends and go on his next adventure.  As a mother, what else could you hope for your child but excitement for education and new experiences?

And as it was a big day to celebrate, Riley got to pick where we went for dinner.  His choice was pizza and ice cream - he is clearly my child!  With a sticky, chocolate covered mouth, he told us that he is excited for another day of Kindergarten tomorrow and I can only hope that the excitement continues throughout the year.

Goodbye tonsils!

After thinking about it for months/years, we knew that the time to take Riley's tonsils out had come.  Between the two sets of ear tubes and having his adenoid removed, it was always something that we knew would probably happen.  The breaking point was when the dentist told us that his jaw was forming in a different way because his mouth was always open.  With that, we circled back to the ENT who confirmed that the time had come.

Today was the day and I can't tell you what a wonderful job Riley did!  We brought him to the hospital and after a lot of waiting, a lot of playing, a lot of wondering when it would finally be our turn, he hopped on the bed and was ready to ride down the hall.  Zee made him a special Star Wars blanket that was there with us from start to finish and Riley hasn't left it all day.  The procedure itself took just over 30 minutes and then the doctor came to tell us that his tonsils were now in tonsil heaven.

Riley took a long time to wake up from his nap, but when he did, he was in good spirits and was ready for a slushy and Gatorade.  He has been drinking well all evening and even ate some apple sauce, a yogurt and a banana when he got home - off to a good start!  I know better than to think that this is indicative of his recovery and am anticipating the pain levels to go up in the next week or so, but we have a kitchen stocked with cold, soft foods and hopefully we will be able to manage the pain as it comes.

And just as a cute reminder - here is a picture of the first time we went in for ear tubes about 4 1/2 years ago.  Note, Riley has certainly changed but my cool disposable outfit still stays the same!

Road Trip!

For the past many, many months we have had Gabe and Arielle's wedding to look forward to - and in addition to that, we created a road trip between the wedding and Hershey to make the most of our time on the road!  So we packed up all of our stuff, packed the car full, turned on the tablets in the back seat and enjoyed the road.  The boys loved every minute of the wedding weekend and the event lived up to the hype.  We had so much fun with family and enjoyed celebrating Gabe and Ari!

After the wedding, we headed to New York City and hit up the Big Apple.  We went to Times Square, Central Park, ate pizza, bagels, hot dogs and pretzels, we explored the city, road the subway and walked miles and miles.  We had a teeny tiny hotel room that we packed ourselves into but at the end of the day, we used it as a headquarters and spent so much time out in the city that never sleeps.  On the way out of town, we took a ferry to Ellis Island and the Statue of Liberty and saw it from every angle.  We even hiked up 197 steps up to the pedestal of the statue - Riley hiked up on his own and I carried Asher up like a little monkey.

Next up, we headed to the city of Brotherly Love (or in our case, love but also kicks and yelling) and played tourist in Philadelphia.  We hit up all of the touristy spots - the Liberty Bell, Independence Hall, the Constitution Museum, the burial spot of Benjamin Franklin, a carnival, the Ferry Terminal market and so much more.  We ate Philly cheesesteaks, ice cream and snacked around the city.  We had the perfect exploring weather and the weather held out so we were able to make the most of our time in Philly.

Last up, we made it to Hershey, the sweetest place on earth!  We started the chocolate fest at the hotel with handfuls of chocolate and Chocolate Bingo.  Asher was not old enough to understand the game and made it a little challenging to play along but Riley got into it and loved when he won.  Zee, true to form, continued his streak of winning Losers Bingo and loved that he was able to keep the tradition alive.  We swam in the indoor and outdoor pool and went to Chocolate World to have lunch with milkshakes, measure ourselves up to the characters and learn how chocolate was made.  Riley remembered the last time we were there and it was so nice to continue the family tradition of visiting Hershey this summer.

We had such a great time on the road and after 10 days together, we all still enjoyed each others company.  We came home with a ton of stories, pictures galore, a lot of laundry and memories to last a lifetime!  I would definitely plan another road trip and think the boys will get more and more out of it the older they get.  Here's to more time of the road!

Memorial Day Memories

Well, it's been a while since I have posted but things have been very, very busy!  Between bachelor/ette weekends, sports classes, family time and just getting things done, we have found plenty of ways to fill our days.  

 This weekend, however, we didn't have many things planned and I had the chance to spend the long Memorial Day weekend with the boys. The Family Park had an event that we went to on Sunday and the boys were really excited that it was finally outside pool weather again.  They could have cared less about the concert that we went for and were just counting down the minutes until I would give in and let them go swimming.  Riley is such a little fish and Asher is doing a great job swimming to the wall.

I surprised them at the end of the day and asked if they wanted to go get ice cream - they surprised me by wanting to dress up for the occasion.   And who am I to deny my boys the chance to be creative, so we became super heroes who like ice cream!

Mt. Lebanon has a great Memorial Day parade so this morning, we loaded up the car, found a spot along the parade route and watched all of the fire trucks, police men, "army guys" and bands make their way down the street.  Bibi taught Asher to wave his little American flag at everyone to show that he appreciates them and the whole way home, every time he saw another car or motorcycle, he would waive his flag at it.

The boys both loved watching all of the pomp and circumstance and even better, loved going to check out the fire truck after the parade was over.  They were in every seat of the fire truck and I literally had to peel Asher out of the drivers seat.  Riley told me today that he wants to be a police officer, a fire fighter and an army guy - I am going to keep my fingers crossed that engineer will make it back onto the list soon.

And as if yesterday's ice cream surprise wasn't enough, we were invited to ice cream for lunch with Bibi and Zee after the parade.  This little total pole of happy people is brought to you by sunshine, family, fire trucks and sugar!